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You might recall a post about starting my journey and the things that had to go. Now I’ll tell you what exactly I did with all the stuff. Giving out plushies One of the most emotionally painful things to get rid of was my mountain of plushies. Every single one of them had a story…
When I was searching for the things that would happen when we were summoned to be interrogated by the immigration services here in Finland to determine whether or not our marriage was a real one, I couldn’t find much information or experiences related to it. This post reflects on the happenings that day, our experience…
2020 I started my journey towards a more minimalistic lifestyle. For those of you who have been reading my blog, you might know that it corresponds with the time I became a housewife! This, by all means, was not a coincidence. Why did I decide to start the journey? 2019 was ending, and we found…
Continuing to take a deeper look into a thread I named The List. I decided to take this opportunity to talk about toxicity, the meaning of words, and the fragile human ego. Compromise is Key So, after having taken a look at The List, I made my point as per the thoughts I had about…
This post is the beginning of a deeper look into a thread I shall call The List. I had some grievances about this particular topic and the way people responded to it and decided to take this opportunity to talk about toxicity, the meaning of words, and the fragile human ego. The Check List The…
Internet dwellers, gamers, and other less traditionally socially inclined people have a rough time when being talked about in the ‘’real-life’’ circles. The people we talk to over the internet and know to be real human beings are often played down, and we are told to go out and make ‘’real friends’’. What are these…
What are traditional family values? According to this dating site, there are many values that should be taken into account for both men and women in a traditional setting. While I agree with some of them, I certainly don’t think that they all apply in today’s world, especially in my case. A woman’s value is…
As our lives get more hectic by the day, it’s important to find moments of solace and relaxation. What better way for it than to start thinking of your everyday chores as a part of the chill-out process! It is mindfulness meditation As a BPD person, I’m on the way to being a databank of…
It seems that in today’s world the word ‘boundary’ is doomed to be taken in one of two ways: Either it is demonized as a way of control, or it is taken to the extreme with people even considering asking consent from babies before they proceed to change the diaper. On my journey through my…
In this era of ‘free’ loving, we have come to a point of not even questioning what is proper and what is not. The stars on the red carpets, someone half their age dangling from their arm, sometimes even younger than that. I’m all for adults making their own mistakes and finding their own way,…