All things wife, femininity, and relationships.
I wrote a post about keeping him satiated, so I figured it only fair to make one for us women too. While men’s masculine needs may sometimes seem brutish and unthinkable to us women, I am certain that the harder-to-comprehend, abstract needs of women baffle the more logical minds of men to no end on…
While we women remain enigmatic to the men of the world, it seems that the same kind of sentiment could be said about them. The modern woman has all but lost the ability to read and understand men, or even tune into their needs as something that is different from our own female desires. So…
As we journey forth in this life and keep building our future and bolstering VanaVerse, I started to think about what it means to be an entrepreneur’s life partner after having a look at this video by Dan Lok and his wife. Is it all long days at work and no time for the relationship,…
While it is often said that we housewives are wasting our potential, our lives, and even crushing the hard work of the so-called sisterhood as it struggles to break free from the patriarchy, the rewards of this privileged and important position are rarely talked about. What are some of the benefits of being a housewife?…
Oh boy, time for some more unconventional and controversial thoughts. This time, as I was doing my morning rounds on Reddit, I found a peculiar question: “What do you do/how do you feel when your partner gets mad when you’re not in the mood to do any sexual activity?” Let me tell you, I am…
I have been wrestling with a secret for quite a while, and it has been weighing on me. That is, how on earth am I going to break it to my family that I am actually, truly a housewife? That my life will be lived not in the glorified field of back-breaking labor but instead,…
I was writing my journal one day, as one does when trying to make sense of their Soulscape, and I stumbled upon my feelings of shame and guilt that relate to many parts of my life. Unfortunately, they have carried on to my journey to become a housewife, so I had to address those feelings….
The short version of my journey would be that in my past I got in with the wrong kind of people, got betrayed by friends, suffered from the trauma of my parent’s separation and the following solitude, and later on got into games. In one of these games, FFXIV, I experienced a lot of lows…
In the past, I have tried so hard to keep a hold of various traditions. Pumpkin carving, a horror movie around Halloween, and Nightmare Before Christmas at, well, Christmas. The struggle to keep some cohesion and order in my chaotic life led to an unhealthy attachment towards these things which I held on to with…
I am having a walk in the clouded autumn weather. And as I walk by some of the building sites in the city, I notice none of the people (many are working on the site) are women. Later on, I saw one masculine dudette standing around when the guys did the heavy lifting on a…