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All about marriage, wife life, and other related things.

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Going through the residence permit interview in Finland as newlyweds

Posted on 26/01/202230/03/2022 by Maria

When I was searching for the things that would happen when we were summoned to be interrogated by the immigration services here in Finland to determine whether or not our marriage was a real one, I couldn’t find much information or experiences related to it. This post reflects on the happenings that day, our experience…

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Twitter Tales | The List 2

Posted on 05/01/202230/03/2022 by Maria

Continuing to take a deeper look into a thread I named The List. I decided to take this opportunity to talk about toxicity, the meaning of words, and the fragile human ego.  Compromise is Key So, after having taken a look at The List, I made my point as per the thoughts I had about…

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Twitter Tales | The List 1

Posted on 22/12/202130/03/2022 by Maria

This post is the beginning of a deeper look into a thread I shall call The List. I had some grievances about this particular topic and the way people responded to it and decided to take this opportunity to talk about toxicity, the meaning of words, and the fragile human ego.  The Check List The…

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The secret of the mythical ”real people”

Posted on 17/10/202130/03/2022 by Maria

Internet dwellers, gamers, and other less traditionally socially inclined people have a rough time when being talked about in the ‘’real-life’’ circles. The people we talk to over the internet and know to be real human beings are often played down, and we are told to go out and make ‘’real friends’’. What are these…

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Roles in marriages (Spoilers: I’m a housewife!)

Posted on 13/10/202130/03/2022 by Maria

What are traditional family values? According to this dating site, there are many values that should be taken into account for both men and women in a traditional setting. While I agree with some of them, I certainly don’t think that they all apply in today’s world, especially in my case.   A woman’s value is…

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Reminder: Boundaries save marriages! (Especially when dealing with BPD)

Posted on 10/09/202130/03/2022 by Maria

It seems that in today’s world the word ‘boundary’ is doomed to be taken in one of two ways: Either it is demonized as a way of control, or it is taken to the extreme with people even considering asking consent from babies before they proceed to change the diaper. On my journey through my…

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What’s too much age difference?

Posted on 31/08/202130/03/2022 by Maria

In this era of ‘free’ loving, we have come to a point of not even questioning what is proper and what is not. The stars on the red carpets, someone half their age dangling from their arm, sometimes even younger than that. I’m all for adults making their own mistakes and finding their own way,…

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5 Questions to ask before marriage

Posted on 15/08/202130/03/2022 by Maria

As I keep discovering more about the destruction of the traditional family unit and the recline in marriages, as well as the divorce rates, I can’t help but wonder if people are doing it for entirely wrong reasons. Here are some of the things I and my husband have been talking about in regards to…

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What I learned from being in an Open Relationship

Posted on 01/08/202130/03/2022 by Maria

I have made a lot of choices in my past that have brought me little more than pain, and as such, I contribute having once lived in an open relationship to my constant need for validation and attention. That, and the fact that I was starved for love and caring, which I did not get…

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Don’t have children when you are Crazy

Posted on 11/07/202130/03/2022 by Maria

For many of us, forming a family is the ultimate thing to do in life. Having a child is the goal we strive for, whether driven by social norms or just the biological pull of any species. But what if you are not in your right mind and balanced? Just don’t do it In short,…

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