All about marriage, wife life, and other related things.
Oh boy, time for some more unconventional and controversial thoughts. This time, as I was doing my morning rounds on Reddit, I found a peculiar question: “What do you do/how do you feel when your partner gets mad when you’re not in the mood to do any sexual activity?” Let me tell you, I am…
I have been wrestling with a secret for quite a while, and it has been weighing on me. That is, how on earth am I going to break it to my family that I am actually, truly a housewife? That my life will be lived not in the glorified field of back-breaking labor but instead,…
When I was searching for the things that would happen when we were summoned to be interrogated by the immigration services here in Finland to determine whether or not our marriage was a real one, I couldn’t find much information or experiences related to it. This post reflects on the happenings that day, our experience…
Continuing to take a deeper look into a thread I named The List. I decided to take this opportunity to talk about toxicity, the meaning of words, and the fragile human ego. Compromise is Key So, after having taken a look at The List, I made my point as per the thoughts I had about…
This post is the beginning of a deeper look into a thread I shall call The List. I had some grievances about this particular topic and the way people responded to it and decided to take this opportunity to talk about toxicity, the meaning of words, and the fragile human ego. The Check List The…
Internet dwellers, gamers, and other less traditionally socially inclined people have a rough time when being talked about in the ‘’real-life’’ circles. The people we talk to over the internet and know to be real human beings are often played down, and we are told to go out and make ‘’real friends’’. What are these…
What are traditional family values? According to this dating site, there are many values that should be taken into account for both men and women in a traditional setting. While I agree with some of them, I certainly don’t think that they all apply in today’s world, especially in my case. A woman’s value is…
It seems that in today’s world the word ‘boundary’ is doomed to be taken in one of two ways: Either it is demonized as a way of control, or it is taken to the extreme with people even considering asking consent from babies before they proceed to change the diaper. On my journey through my…
In this era of ‘free’ loving, we have come to a point of not even questioning what is proper and what is not. The stars on the red carpets, someone half their age dangling from their arm, sometimes even younger than that. I’m all for adults making their own mistakes and finding their own way,…
As a Borderline person, I have a hard time differentiating realities from my own perceptions on occasion. This is why it is extremely important to sit down and take a good look at what my true rights and responsibilities are, especially within my marriage. Basic rights The rights I’ve found in a relationship, or life…