All about marriage, wife life, and other related things.
When I was searching for the things that would happen when we were summoned to be interrogated by the immigration services here in Finland to determine whether or not our marriage was a real one, I couldn’t find much information or experiences related to it. This post reflects on the happenings that day, our experience…
Continuing to take a deeper look into a thread I named The List. I decided to take this opportunity to talk about toxicity, the meaning of words, and the fragile human ego. Compromise is Key So, after having taken a look at The List, I made my point as per the thoughts I had about…
This post is the beginning of a deeper look into a thread I shall call The List. I had some grievances about this particular topic and the way people responded to it and decided to take this opportunity to talk about toxicity, the meaning of words, and the fragile human ego. The Check List The…
Internet dwellers, gamers, and other less traditionally socially inclined people have a rough time when being talked about in the ‘’real-life’’ circles. The people we talk to over the internet and know to be real human beings are often played down, and we are told to go out and make ‘’real friends’’. What are these…
What are traditional family values? According to this dating site, there are many values that should be taken into account for both men and women in a traditional setting. While I agree with some of them, I certainly don’t think that they all apply in today’s world, especially in my case. A woman’s value is…
It seems that in today’s world the word ‘boundary’ is doomed to be taken in one of two ways: Either it is demonized as a way of control, or it is taken to the extreme with people even considering asking consent from babies before they proceed to change the diaper. On my journey through my…
In this era of ‘free’ loving, we have come to a point of not even questioning what is proper and what is not. The stars on the red carpets, someone half their age dangling from their arm, sometimes even younger than that. I’m all for adults making their own mistakes and finding their own way,…
As I keep discovering more about the destruction of the traditional family unit and the recline in marriages, as well as the divorce rates, I can’t help but wonder if people are doing it for entirely wrong reasons. Here are some of the things I and my husband have been talking about in regards to…
I have made a lot of choices in my past that have brought me little more than pain, and as such, I contribute having once lived in an open relationship to my constant need for validation and attention. That, and the fact that I was starved for love and caring, which I did not get…
For many of us, forming a family is the ultimate thing to do in life. Having a child is the goal we strive for, whether driven by social norms or just the biological pull of any species. But what if you are not in your right mind and balanced? Just don’t do it In short,…