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Category: Relationships

All about marriage, wife life, and other related things.

Stop demonizing men for their needs!

Posted on 22/01/202329/12/2022 by Maria

Oh boy, time for some more unconventional and controversial thoughts. This time, as I was doing my morning rounds on Reddit, I found a peculiar question: “What do you do/how do you feel when your partner gets mad when you’re not in the mood to do any sexual activity?” Let me tell you, I am…

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How to get out of the Housewife’s Closet?

Posted on 25/12/202220/11/2022 by Maria

I have been wrestling with a secret for quite a while, and it has been weighing on me. That is, how on earth am I going to break it to my family that I am actually, truly a housewife? That my life will be lived not in the glorified field of back-breaking labor but instead,…

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Going through the residence permit interview in Finland as newlyweds

Posted on 26/01/202208/11/2022 by Maria

When I was searching for the things that would happen when we were summoned to be interrogated by the immigration services here in Finland to determine whether or not our marriage was a real one, I couldn’t find much information or experiences related to it. This post reflects on the happenings that day, our experience…

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Twitter Tales | The List 2

Posted on 05/01/202211/11/2022 by Maria

Continuing to take a deeper look into a thread I named The List. I decided to take this opportunity to talk about toxicity, the meaning of words, and the fragile human ego.  Compromise is Key So, after having taken a look at The List, I made my point as per the thoughts I had about…

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Twitter Tales | The List 1

Posted on 22/12/202111/11/2022 by Maria

This post is the beginning of a deeper look into a thread I shall call The List. I had some grievances about this particular topic and the way people responded to it and decided to take this opportunity to talk about toxicity, the meaning of words, and the fragile human ego.  The Check List The…

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The secret of the mythical ”real people”

Posted on 17/10/202111/11/2022 by Maria

Internet dwellers, gamers, and other less traditionally socially inclined people have a rough time when being talked about in the ‘’real-life’’ circles. The people we talk to over the internet and know to be real human beings are often played down, and we are told to go out and make ‘’real friends’’. What are these…

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man and woman couple wearing their silver couple bond ring

Roles in marriages (Spoilers: I’m a housewife!)

Posted on 13/10/202130/03/2022 by Maria

What are traditional family values? According to this dating site, there are many values that should be taken into account for both men and women in a traditional setting. While I agree with some of them, I certainly don’t think that they all apply in today’s world, especially in my case.   A woman’s value is…

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Reminder: Boundaries save marriages! (Especially when dealing with BPD)

Posted on 10/09/202130/03/2022 by Maria

It seems that in today’s world the word ‘boundary’ is doomed to be taken in one of two ways: Either it is demonized as a way of control, or it is taken to the extreme with people even considering asking consent from babies before they proceed to change the diaper. On my journey through my…

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What’s too much age difference?

Posted on 31/08/202111/11/2022 by Maria

In this era of ‘free’ loving, we have come to a point of not even questioning what is proper and what is not. The stars on the red carpets, someone half their age dangling from their arm, sometimes even younger than that. I’m all for adults making their own mistakes and finding their own way,…

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Life Traps | Pt. 27: Relationship rights and responsibilities

Posted on 18/08/202111/11/2022 by Maria

As a Borderline person, I have a hard time differentiating realities from my own perceptions on occasion. This is why it is extremely important to sit down and take a good look at what my true rights and responsibilities are, especially within my marriage.  Basic rights The rights I’ve found in a relationship, or life…

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Maria Vana
Wordsmithing Housewife
Blogging about Mental Health, Wifery & Femininity, and Writing | VanaVerse Advocate | Pixel Artist | Author & Translator
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