Our First Christmas

Posted by Maria

Traditionally I would spend the holidays with my extended family but because of how things were around our marriage I couldn’t do that for our first ever Christmas. Instead, we made it ourselves, in our one-room apartment, with a very low budget and some hand made decorations. And let me tell you, it was incredible!

It was fun and exciting not only because it was the first time I planned things out to this extent but also because my husband hadn’t celebrated the infamous birth of Christ since he comes from a culture of Judaism. 

I started the day with something I had not done before properly, rice porridge. It is one of the traditions here in Finland to have some of this creamy goodness with an almond hidden into it. Whoever gets the almond is supposed to have better luck the coming year (Mr. Vana tried his best to dig through the porridge to cheat at finding the plum but in the end, I managed to get it on my plate in glorious victory). People can also make things such as plum or raisin soup to go with it but I decided against it since neither of us really enjoys such things, cinnamon-sugar all the way for this girl!

After the meal, I started making some decorations.

I sank hours into Origami, learning about paper baubles and stars and whatnot in an attempt to try and make the best of what we had. And well. We had a branch that I had carved into a staff eons ago when I was still living in my hometown. My dog at the time managed to pee a tree to death in our yard and when it was finally cut down I decided to save a part of it. 

The baubles proved to be quite the hassle, I may or may not have lost my temper a few times while I was trying to get them to behave. In the end, I succeeded in wrangling them though and so, we had an amazing Xmas Branch with my heritage star on top (it is the star we used to have back home when the family was still intact and the holidays full of mystery and joy for a child).

After the branch was done it was time to move on to the making of our two-person feast and the final steps of the dessert while Mr. Vana finished up with his work. I locked myself in the bathroom, put on a nice red dress, and prettied myself up with a final touch of clip-on earrings (oh yes, that’s another thing I learned, you don’t actually have to pierce your ears!) and the amazing snowflake necklace my husband got me. 

The typical Finnish Christmas meal follows a pattern: you have your fishy round (salmon in various forms, other fishes in sauces, fish eggs, mushrooms, paté maybe, etc) and after that, there would be the casseroles made from things like carrots and potato as well as the crowning glory of the holiday- the ham. But as it happens, I can not serve Mr. Vana Piglet on a platter so I had to think a little bit out of the box. 

For the main dish, I made some pan-fried chicken breast, coconut-curry sauce with a hint of lemon, and pink potato mash. Yes, pink potatoes are a thing, something about the antioxidants in nature coloring them, which is fine by me since I have had some dark purple potatoes too way back in Vocational-school. Mr. Vana did an amazing job with the mash!

As for the side dishes I whipped up some herbal mushrooms, cold smoked salmon and salmon mousse, as well as a Chantelle salad that we ended up tossing because oh boy I should’ve listened to my gut when I was measuring up the white wine vinegar and it screamed ‘’Don’t do it!”. Let’s bypass that as a momentary lapse in judgment and move right on shall we!

As for the table and setting it well, we are currently living in a very much space-challenged apartment and the pc took its place on our one table at that time that we also used to eat, but I managed to clear ‘’ my side’’ of it. I set our food on it and gave it some mood lightings and made room for the home restaurant plates used.

All and all it was a nice meal, at least we didn’t remain hungry and some of the things we even saved for an evening snack. After dinner, Mr. Vana gifted me the sweetest thing ever, the things he had held on to from our first (online)date. He actually dried the rose he got for me back in Israel so he could give it to me one day, and he wrote me a note back then, roughly six months before. It said ‘’I love you’’. Talk about a romantic, committed to the cause kind of guy eh?

Oh but wait. Did I forget about something?

The first-ever cheesecake I made and let me tell you I almost got an anxiety attack over this thing. How would I know about the number of cookies to use in the bottom since the pack we got is big and the cookies thin?! (Mr. Vana calculated an exact number of cookies based on their weight just to make it easier for my mentally challenged mind.) And what am I going to do about the gelatin, it’s made out of pigs and I don’t know anything about any other method?! (Turns out agar powder is not that scary to use, even if we did end up with some random bits in the filling cause of some clumps that didn’t get mixed in well) And is it even going to set in time?!

Well. I’m just going to say the cake was amazing. The gingerbread cookie bottom, the white chocolate filling with some lemon, even the mulled wine (glögi) glaze that ended up oozing all over because of my procrastination, all of it was wonderful. Add to that the white-hot chocolate with a touch of cinnamon and we were in sugar heaven for quite a while before we gave in and yielded to the bed in terror that our bellies would never be the same again.

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2 thoughts on “Our First Christmas

  1. Amethyst

    Finland food looking pretty tasty. Your husband is really bringing out the best in you and that’s what you want. I wish you two well and stay together until a ripe old age of 100

    1. Maria

      He is amazing, yes! We’ll do one better and go for 101!

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