I saw this concept on a blog I was reading one day and I’d like to borrow it, a sort of listing of goals for both their blog and personally for this year. Unfortunately, I lost the blog, otherwise, I would surely link it for you! I feel as though putting my goals out there…
Anniversary 2021
On the 17th of January, we celebrate our wedding anniversary. It’s been a year since I Married my exotic husband, who came to the cold north to be with me and left behind the Sun of the middle east as well as his family, friends, and even the family dogs! Sometimes I have my moments…
The importance of making love
I wanted to take a deeper look into how I and my husband keep the intimacy and closeness in the relationship intact. It may be that this book I’ve been reading, His Needs, Her Needs by Willard F. Harley, Jr., has got me thinking about the different ways we humans function- even when most people…
5 Habits to make your marriage stronger
#1 Grooming Yes, you heard me. Grooming, also known as maintenance. There is nothing quite like the feeling of your husband gently and with all of his attention brushing my hair when I need it or sometimes just for fun. I wish he had hair sometimes so we could share this amazing sensation of skull…
Letter to my 2020-self
As I was flicking through Twitter one day, trying to figure out what to do about the New Years’ post since nothing much was going to happen due to Covid, I found Hannah’s post. It’s a letter to the past year and while the idea is amazing in itself, I decided to give it a…
Christmas 2020
2020 was quite the year for us, even without the infamous Covid running rampant. We had to deal with immigration and tax offices, and heavens alone knew how scared I was to get my next wisdom tooth cut out from my jaw so close to the holidays! But, We managed to have a decent Christmas,…
Our First Christmas
Traditionally I would spend the holidays with either of our families but because of how things were around our marriage, and because his side of the family is on the other side of the continent, we couldn’t do that for our first-ever Christmas. Instead, we made it ourselves, in our one-room apartment, with a very…
My Writing plans for the future
Image: I had the immense privilege to chill out in a Villa in Italy in 2015 and do some creating with this amazing view! Noqu (the plush) has since continued her adventures around the world. I did not think of myself as an ambitious person in the past, but as I’ve started to grow, I…
How would you respond to a Bomb Threat?
At the beginning of November, 2020, we got a serious scare as some lunatic started shouting in front of our building that he had a bomb. He spoke like a native Finn and raved on about how he is a wanted man, that he has hostages and that yes, he has a bomb. What makes…
17/01/2020
That was the magical day when I got married and became Mrs. Vana. There are a lot of misconceptions about my beloved husband among people which keeps causing me stress and sorrow, but in the end, our relationship is ours. And marrying this man was the best decision I have made in my life I…